Custody Battle Tips

Going through a divorce or custody battle is definitely going to be one of the hardest times of your life. There are a litany of feelings and emotions that you are going to have but in order to achieve the best outcome for you and your kids you need to follow a few basic custody battle tips to keep some type of calm during the storm.

(1.) Be Proactive

Having a plan reduces anxiety.

(2.) Pay Your Child Support

No matter what! Even if you are waiting for a modification or feel as though the amount is wrong whatever the circumstances may be, always keep current on your child support until you have a court order changing it. Once you get behind you can be in for a drawn-out fight in court.

(3.) Be Involved

Keep track of all important dates and events for your child; attend parent-teacher conferences, doctor appointments, recitals, sporting events. Know the names of your children’s doctors, coaches, teachers, etc.

(4.) Spend Time with Your Children

This is important for everyone — especially the children.

(5.) Keep a Journal

Keep a running journal for your benefit/child’s benefit. Write down communication between you and the other parent, visiting hours, money spent, keep track of appointments and other important facts and events.

(6.) Finally, Consult a Lawyer

A one hour consultation with an attorney could save emotional energy and even money down the road. This isn’t something you want to go through alone.